Connecting with women online can be a daunting task for some. After all, there are numerous factors to consider when it comes to making a connection with someone you don’t know in real life. How do you make a good impression? What should you say? How do you know if she’s interested? Fortunately, several creative strategies can help make the process easier. Here are tips to keep in mind when connecting with women online:
#1 Compliment Her
You might be thinking the best way to go when trying to start a conversation with a woman online is to greet her first; well, you might have it wrong right there. While greeting is not a bad way to start a conversation, it’s not appreciated by most women at this age and time. When you want to talk to random women online for the first time, compliment them! Women appreciate compliments way more than greetings.
Women naturally feel they are noticed when complimented as opposed to the regular greetings they receive from men. Giving a woman an appropriate compliment about any part of her body or even her aura instantly gives you a green flag in her books. You’ll have her smiling and giggling right from your first entry into her DMs.
You’ve opened the stage positively and surely need a good follow-up. After you’ve given a woman a reason to smile at your first text, you can now proceed to greetings. Yes, move to greetings, and you make it more interesting — it’s as simple as just greeting according to the time of the day you made your pass and chipping in a line like; forgive my manners, I just couldn’t help myself from being honest and letting you know how pretty your smile is. Now you’ve made your perfect entry and are ready to blow her mind even more.
#2 Ask Engaging Questions
When chatting with women online, knowing the best questions to ask is essential to maintain a natural and engaging conversation. Asking questions is a great way to start the dialogue, but having the right questions is even more important.
The main aim of this phase is to ask questions and receive detailed answers. Start by asking a fundamental question like, “have you eaten?” If yes, follow up by inquiring about what they ate. This will give you the opportunity to discuss their food preferences in greater detail. It is essential to avoid the impression that you are only trying to question them, as this will make you seem desperate.
Balance the conversation by talking about yourself and giving them a chance to get to know you. When talking about yourself, make sure to present the best version of yourself to her without lying or faking. Other questions will easily flow into the conversation as you have created a comfortable ambiance.
#3 Listen!
Confidence and the right mindset are essential for success, but it’s important to remember that every woman is an individual with her personality, interests, and experiences. Therefore, it’s vital to communicate with an open mind and actively listen to understand what she enjoys and dislikes. Working in that direction will help you reach success.
#4 Use Emojis, Memes, and GIFs
Don’t fall behind in modern trends by having an outdated sense of humor. Incorporating emojis into your texts will make your conversations more exciting and give the women you communicate with a chance to express themselves more fully.
Moreover, memes and GIFs have become one of the best ways to communicate nowadays. While you may be talking about anything with a woman, sending a meme or GIF related to your conversation at that moment instantly boosts the conversation. It’s either you’re making her laugh out loud or digging deeper into your conversation with her. So, gentleman, you should ease your tone and make use of these conversation boosters!
#5 Be Funny
Being funny and light-hearted is essential when talking to women online, or you risk being ignored. Even if you’re not naturally funny, it’s worth the effort to learn. Watch some comedy shows and talk about them; this can help you get an idea of what kinds of jokes she responds to.
You should always chip in funny and witty comments to brighten her mood. The female gender loves funny guys! Make sure you do an excellent job in that aspect.
#6 Play Hard Guy A Little Bit
Now that you have set a good pace don’t be too eager. Women often play hard to get, but there’s nothing wrong with men doing the same—just do it in a different way. Don’t try to get her attention by pretending to be aloof; it could backfire and make you seem uninterested.
If you’ve been the one initiating the conversations more often, try to take a step back. If the late-night conversations end with a goodnight, don’t message her right away in the morning as usual. Allow her to miss you or your presence. If she seems interested in you, she will reach out to you to find out why you haven’t been messaging. And also, she may be getting to like you and still not want to message you first. In this instance, just wait till evening and message her first — then you should chip in; did you miss me? It’s more likely you would know how she’s feeling about you from this point.
#7 Flirt!
This may not be necessary if you are looking forward to being a friend, but it’s crucial if you want to be more than just friends. While your conversations may still be limited to online chats, it’s pretty normal you would have improved to video calls for a better experience, and that is your chance!
Your smile is the most straightforward form of flirting; knowing when and how to smile goes a long way. Making eye contact is another form of flirting that works perfectly. Your other ways of flirting can be about the type of words you use while chatting and questions you ask about their past relationships and what they would prefer in the future. Also, you should ask questions that could easily let them know how you feel about them.
Conclusion
These few tips will go a long way if you use them right, and while doing so, you should be confident — a confident man is a ladies’ man. You might end up meeting your soulmate while making use of these tips, and that would be one of the best things to happen to you.
